How to Build Your Own Date Night Lube Bundle
By The Butters Hygienics Co. - Handmade Vegan Hygienics | Published: 2026-10-27
Category: How-to Guides
Learn how to create a personalized lube bundle for date night with our step-by-step guide. Choose sizes, scents, and textures that suit you both.
Quick answer
To build your own date night lube bundle, start with a base like Butters Lube Aloe X Shea for lasting moisture, then add a massage oil in your preferred size and packaging. Customize each component to match your shared preferences.
Why build your own bundle instead of buying a fixed set?
A pre-made set might include a lube you love but a massage oil you never use. Building your own bundle lets you choose the exact sizes, scents, and textures that work for both of you. This is especially helpful when one partner prefers a thicker, longer-lasting lube and the other wants a lighter oil for massage.
The Date Night Bundle from The Butters Hygienics Co. is designed to be customizable, so you can pick your favorite lube and massage oil combination without paying for extras you don't need.
What to consider when choosing your lube
The lube is the centerpiece of your bundle. Think about whether you want something ultra long-lasting for extended play or a lighter formula for quick use. Aloe X Shea blends are known for their moisturizing properties, making them a good choice if you want a lubricant that also conditions skin.
If you're new to plant-based lubes, start with a smaller jar to test the texture and how it feels on your skin before committing to a larger size.
How to pick the right massage oil
Massage oils vary in absorbency and scent. Sunflower and grapeseed oils are lightweight and absorb quickly, making them ideal for a massage that transitions into intimacy without leaving a greasy residue. If you prefer a longer massage session, a slightly richer oil might be better.
Consider whether you want a scented or unscented oil. Scented oils can enhance the mood, but unscented options are safer if either partner has sensitive skin.
Steps to build your date night lube bundle
- Choose your lube base: Select a lube like Butters Lube Aloe X Shea for its long-lasting, moisturizing formula. Pick the jar size that fits how often you plan to use it. A common mistake is picking a size that's too large for your first try—start with a smaller jar to test compatibility.
- Select your massage oil: Decide between options like Sunflower X Grapeseed for a light, quick-absorbing oil. Choose a scent that sets the mood or go unscented for sensitive skin. If you're unsure, pick an unscented oil—you can always add a drop of your own essential oil later.
- Pick your packaging and sizes: For each component, choose the packaging that suits your storage and travel needs. Smaller bottles are great for travel or trying out, while larger jars are more economical for regular use. Double-check that the lube and oil sizes you pick fit together in your storage space—mismatched containers can be awkward to store side by side.
- Review and customize your kit: Before finalizing, review your selections to ensure the lube and oil complement each other. For example, a thick lube pairs well with a lightweight massage oil to balance textures. A common oversight is forgetting to check if both partners are happy with the scent—ask before you buy.
Product facts
- Date Night Bundle (Customizable): Get a jar of Butters Lube Aloe X Shea and bottle of Massage Oil, the perfect date pairing! Choose your favorite sizes/packaging for the perfect kit! This bundle lets you customize both the lube and massage oil independently, so you can create a set that matches your preferred textures and quantities.
Date Night Bundle (Customizable)
